About DA Southern

From Shakespeare’s Play,

As You Like It, Act 2, scene 7


All the world’s a stage,

And all the men and women merely players;

They have their exits and their entrances,

And one man in his time plays many parts,

His acts being seven ages.

In his famous soliquy, the character from Shakespeare’s play, Jaques, laments on the state of man with the “Ages” being the different stages of life, or the Seven Ages of Man.

This is where I begin to tell tell the story of Direct Your Own Life Consulting.

I write for a living; novels, plays, love letters, blogs, etc, and I coach clients in the ways of living successfully in the Now Moment with an ever-present eye towards the concepts learned by being involved in theatre for over 35 years.

I have acted, mostly in community and regional theatre and I have directed productions as a Managing Director for a regional theatre company doing everything from children’s shows to dinner theatre productions to plays and musicals.

Additionally, I have been hacking away at this thing called the Internet for a while to combine my love for writing, usually blogs on different subjects, and my love for being an entrepreneur to use my creative mind as a way to earn a living and along the way began coaching clients in the way to live a life based on the principles I derive as an active participant in all aspects of theatre.

While this as been good to me in several arenas, there is little thing called passion that keeps nipping at my heels and that is my overriding love for all lessons that theatre has taught me in my life.

You see, I love the theatre and the passion it has instilled in my soul for living and, several years ago, I developed this whole strategy of Direct Your Own Life Consulting, but was told by who I believed at that time to be “people in the know”  that the niche was too small to get people interested.

But who cares?

Passion is passion and Confucius said, “if you love what you do, you will never work a day in your life.” So, as a Now Moment coach, I have drawn upon the lessons of acting, directing and living a life as a theatre person to inspire others to look at life as what Shakespeare said when he penned that all the world is a stage and we are merely players.

There is this little thing called Maslow’s Hierarchy of Needs that every human needs to live. (If you have never seen it, look at the explanation of Maslow’s Hierarchy of Needs here.) Essentially, it is a diagram of a pyramid that shows the needs of humanity in a rather simplistic manner. The bottom two layers are the basics that humans need and, supposedly, until we satisfy those needs, we can’t move on.

You know, the essentials of life we desire to live at a bare level; the way to obtain the basics of life, (I guess in this day and age, it is essentially a cell phone and someplace to eat and sleep) and security in knowing that we have at least enough to get us to the next day.

So what does this have to do here with Direct Your Own Life?

Well, everything!

Direct Your Own Life is my way of giving you the world in all ways through the eyes of the lessons learned in theatre and as a writer, a creator, which we all are, and a coach of living Now Moments in a dynamic way that propel you dynamically into the next Now Moment, essentially the upper dynamics of the pyramid.

Where does this blog fit in? Every part of your life as we will discuss everything for relationships to living in excellence to developing your passion to creating a winning life and everything else that is relevant to making your way in this world in which we live in.

Yes, it will be from the eyes of the theatre and all that goes into putting a production together, but as Shakespeare said, “All the world is a stage.” So, I intend to use my passion for theatre to help you find your passion for living or, if nothing else, to live better in your own skin.

In life, like a great stage play, the desire is to end with such a flair that people stand and say, “Bravo!” for this is the greatest compliment we can receive as actors.

I stand right here, right now and say to you, “Bravo!” for you are on your journey right here, right now. Allow me to go with you and you with me and together let us make a difference in your world


directyourownlife@gmail.comDA Southern is an Author, Speaker, Blogger and a Strategic Life Coach, teaching the spirit of living in Now Moments with the principles he experienced during over 35 years as an actor and director in live theatre. DA coaches his clients to rid life of limiting beliefs that have kept them from achieving miracles in all areas of their life by embracing Mindfulness of the Present Moment with a renewed Vision for life. Contact DA Southern for Coaching or Speaking directyourownlife@gmail.com



5 Comments (+add yours?)

  1. DarkEarthAngels
    Mar 29, 2012 @ 07:05:52

    I have nominated your blog for the Versatile Blogger Award. To view all nominees and comments please go to http://holisticwords.wordpress.com/2012/03/29/holistic-words-nominated-the-versatile-blogger-award/
    Andrea xx 🙂


    • dasouthern
      Mar 29, 2012 @ 08:32:19

      I am grateful that you have done so. Much appreciated.


  2. Donnie Blanz
    Apr 19, 2012 @ 17:22:13

    I am new to your blog but I really have liked what I have read so far It is such a struggle some times to remember that we are agents of positive change even when we feel anger and hurt
    Thanks for taking the time to blog, As a blogger myself I can see the work you are putting into this and I appreciate you


    • dasouthern
      Apr 20, 2012 @ 08:40:26

      Thank you for your kind words they are much appreciated.It is important to always Direct Your Power so that you are indeed a force for change in the world, for in the end it is not about what we accumulate to ourselves, but what we give away that truly matters.


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